Many women love being beautiful and enhance their natural beauty with make up. Some do it lightly for it to be barely noticeable, as they just want a glow on their face by using a nude lipgloss very neutral eyeshadow palette, other like it to be vibrant so that everybody can easily see it. In the same token, some men do not like women wearing flashy make up while others love seeing their partner or wives wearing hot tones. Either way they wish their wives to put on makeup many days of a week if it is not every single day. Many times after a few years of marriage some women stop wearing make up which it not for the liking of their significant others.
To illustrate let me begin with my case.
In spite of being fond of makeup taking care of my baby and getting as much rest as possible were on top of my priorities. Therefore wearing make up on a regular basis went to the bottom on my list. One day that hubby was upset at me he told me out of the blue that I look older than I am, that in a span of six months I aged by five years. I was appalled hearing that from his own mouth; that remark was but mean. Lack of sleep taking care of a newborn and tiredness do not make you look your best, but not sugarcoating it hurt. Shortly after that, I asked to myself why he told me that and I realized it was because of me caring less for my physical appearance.
As I am someone who truly loves cosmetic products, I have started to wear it again. I did not really do it only to please him but rather for myself.
Now let’s follow with Eve’s story. One day while being at my parents’ I was still a teenager, I remember hearing my cousin Eve saying that if she does not wear makeup the husband did not find her attractive; which surprised me. Inside myself, I said why he was forcing her to do something that she did not like doing? What was even more surprising is that he is not to inclined or proud to introduce her to his acquaintances and or friends; when going in public he clearly let her know that she should use at her least eye liner, her lip gloss and the face powder. She told us all that while putting makeup on since she was getting ready go out with her husband.
It is not any secret that a large number of men love when women wear makeup; in that long list I can add up my own dad too. When my siblings and I go out with dad we do put make up on; he mostly looks at us in a funny way if we don’t. It is still fresh in my memories that he bought us cosmetics as teenagers.
In the beginning of a relationship, or when wishing dating, women usually wear makeup; their face look good all the time. However, after a while, many start to put it on less and less to even then stop it altogether.
According to an old adage after getting married, as that was their main goal, there is no point for many women to have the same desire to keep looking their best, as they know the man is theirs for life and forever.
In my opinion this form of thought is wrong therefore I do not share it.
In fact, many married women feel so secure in their relationship as this is their man, and as I said previously he is for them for the rest of their live and he will not see any other women they start not to take care of how they look as before. It is not only about cosmetic products, some women stop to buy attractive clothes and underwears, some also do not wear bras all day long. Or they do not do the pretty hairdo they used to do before. Before some put highlights in their hair, now they do not do it anymore. It is not because they do not have time because they are either busy at work or at home. Neither it is because months of highlights have damaged their hair therefore there is a need for a break to nurture their mane back. Nope! It is neither because they are short of money.
Their goal being achieved, they do not need to take care of themselves as before. Some will even say that they do not any cheating plan so why keep being as glam as in the dating time.
In my opinion this is a mistake, men always like seeing a pretty face, they stare at it and smile.
Do you remember that for many of you it is the way you look months, years ago that attracted your current partner, and that was what prompted him to go start a conversation with you which end up to you both getting married or living together under the same roof.
I remember that while visiting my cousin, one of her friend and I was home with her husband, then he started to talk and then said that how his wife does not take care of how she looks, that she does not put lipstick anymore and instead of combing her hair she just put a bonnet on regardless of the weather, in wintertime and in summer time. I did not reply to what he said because I thought at that time it would have been better for him to have a talk with her about it not with me .Instead, I thought that he could have tackled the topic in a different way. His way was too direct for me, it seemed like he was just criticizing her.
Instead of saying like he did, why did he not ask me to help him book a spa day, an appointment with a hairdresser, or to help him buy some new lipstick, and outfit. Because although they live with their women under the same roof, they may not know her taste.
After getting married do not let yourself go, try to look fresh and nice as often as possible ladies!
