What man, old and young, who does not like seeing a beautiful young woman with a nice curvy body walking down the streets? Be honest guys confess it! Although big age gap couples where the husband is the one who is the eldest are more common, the other way around exist as well; look at Emmanuel Macron, the French president and his wife who is his elder of 25 years. Love has no age!
While age difference is a problem for some people, it is not one for others, hence some couples with a considerable age difference, May-December marriages. As you may already guess it, today topic is about age gap and sexuality. When the age difference is quite significant, some challenges may need to be handled.
Sometimes at the very beginning of their relationship, more precisely in the dating period, some couples do not really think about sex about later in life, No they do not project in the future as their mind is busy focusing in the now. Thinking about it and talking about it before moving together or tying the knot is important because while those sex related issues can happen at any age it can be more frequent in that type of relationships than in same age or almost same age couples.
While sex is plays a large role in a relationship keep in mind that it is in not everything in a committed relationship either. So tell me you know that as men grow older they may develop some diseases like prostate enlargement, benign prostatic hyperplasia, which can cause sexual problems, and other health issues such as diabetes and or high cholesterol level can negatively affect men’s sexual life. If such problems arise in your relationship, will you stop enjoying sex with your life partner? Will you leave him?
When his penis is not hard enough to allow penetration, how will you react? What will you do when his penis become soft again quite quickly after he penetrates you? Will you cheat on him despite of both of you agreed on a monogamous marriage right from the beginning? Or will you just quit the relationship or get a divorce just because of that while no other major problems exist between the two of you guys?
Women who date and or marry older guys are often accused of doing so mainly for money, or just for sexual satisfaction. Although that maybe true for some people, it is not the universal truth; most of the times that has nothing to do with, it is just a matter of love plain and simple. But if your husband’s sexual performance is not the same as before and you either cheat on him or leave him that is what may raise doubts about the reasons why you married him.
Some young women like men of experience, it is just their preferences. I remember one of my sisters told me that in her church there was a woman who always said that only older men were attractive to her. And it did not come as a surprise when she dated and later married a man who was 20 something years older than her. According to my sister, a few years after, the guy became like a very old guy with a pretty wrinkled face, all his hair turned gray while his spouse was still a young woman with barely some wrinkles and almost no gray hair. Now the age gap is quite obvious. Besides, Gerald, the husband, started to have some health problems.
Yes I understand what my sister said, but one that I thing that in my head is. Did she have problems with the fact that their age gap is quite evident? I did not think so, was her husband health issues constitute a problem to her. I thought that the answer was another no. So as long as they are happy together that was fine. She showed to everybody that he was the one that she wanted by marrying him and carry his children. So what society think about it does not matter at all.
Guys when you are in an age gap relationship or marriage, you have to make it work; by that I mean that you have to work on your relation. I always compare love to a plant, or a flower, in order for it to grow and to stay beautiful it at to get the right amount of sun, and should be watered on a regular basis. Otherwise, it will fade and die.
If you are the oldest in the relationship there are things that you have to work on such as taking care of how you look and take care of your health. By doing so you will still be attractive to your life partner. Taking care of your health by eating healthy, more veggies and fruit, less fat and less fast food, and not missing your annual check-up. This way, some diseases can be caught early and you which allow you to receive the appropriate care and prevent or delay complications.
If you are the youngest of the relationship, you have things to work on as well. First off communication is your best friend; you have to communicate with your other half on a regular basis. By doing so you will know how your husband feel about aging, his fears, challenges, and needs.
Avoid blaming him for his lack of energy that prevents you for going for a walk everyday for more than one hour. Instead encourage him to see whether health issues are the cause, if not just cut down the amount of time you walk and or invest in other activities that consume less energy.
He maybe a bit shy or reluctant to talk about them hence addressing those topics
Regarding performance in bed, be very tactful, if not addressed properly you can aggravate the matter as stress can cause sexual issues.
Guys, age gap should not be a problem in your relationship because since the beginning you know that you were younger than him or she and he or she knows that as well. Find solutions to the sexual issues, and keep enjoying each other!
