Here is the interesting question, do you trust your friends with your husband? I am not talking about all the friends but particularly one type, the female ones. Can you say that idea never ever run in your head? Do you never said what if? What if my friend tries to seduce my husband? And what if this latter accepts her sexual advances and run into her arms. Or let’s take it the other way around, he seduces her and instead of say no she is more than happy to cross the lines to start something with him.
Maybe you may say or actually think that the answer to all those questions is negative. In this case you do not think they will do something that foolish as both person love you and want all the best for you. Therefore you say to yourself, what I am thinking about, oh well this is just overthinking and I quickly drive that silly idea from my mind . He is not that type of person, and he is in love with me so he will not be faithful and cheat on me with my own friend.
Although often times people are eaten by insecurity, it is not always the case as too many cases out there. So do not come here to tell me that having doubts on men cheating on their wife with their friend is merely about insecure women who do not believe in themselves and are afraid of losing their men.
Yet, we all have heard and or known stories of people who got betrayed in their marriage or committed relationship by someone they had some kind of friendship with. Do you remember how Shania Twain, the famous Canadian singer, first marriage ended? Her husband initiated a romantic liaison with her best friend and later he ended divorced Shania to marry her. Shania did not think that could happen could happen to her; however it did .
I think that everything has a limit. A friend stays a friend whatever the strength of the friendship. For more you like your friend, your husband your marriage should what to be prioritized. Always keep some boundaries because once the line has been crossed it can be quite difficult to turn the clock back.
At the same time, I am not telling you to be dubious about everybody or as soon as your friend gets close to your husband, or those two are talking and laughing that there is anyway something suspicious. No, I am not implying that.
I remember that I was visiting my friend Nathalie, and another friend was over as well, and guess what? That day I learned that friend went to the beach with Nathalie’s husband, which surprises me a great deal. how come Nathalie left the two of them to go to the beach without anyone else was around.Because not only that woman, Josie has the bad reputation of dating married men, and Natalie’s husband is exactly the type of men that she is after, a bit old and well off. and Nathalie was well aware of Josie’s reputation and knows that she even had a kid with a man while he was married.
Also let’s have a look at Khloe Kardashian’s case, her baby daddy was caught having an affair with her little sister’s, Kylie, best friend. The Kardashians would not believe that something like that could happen. and before long Kylie asked her so called friend to move out of her house as the friend not only betray Khloe she in some way betrayed her as well.
Later, while my sister and I commented about it, mom heard us and said that was some kind of unbelievably strange story. Shortly after, she added that should not happen given Josie’s reputation, and in the future Nathalie should be more cautious when it comes to let someone go having fun with her husband.
A few years ago, I recall something that happened at my parents’ while one of our friends was over with his wife and his daughter. Everybody was upstairs as it is where all the bedrooms were, then my sister decided to go down to the living room , shortly after she got followed by Michael who wanted to have a drink. As he found my sister in the living room he did not go back upstairs, instead he sit down and started to converse with her.
As her wife did not see him coming back she asked me for my sister’s whereabouts, realising that they were alone downstairs; her face changed completely and she almost ran to go downstairs. It was so flagrant to see how she was not happy to hear that. You could see that she was afraid that something happened with my sister and her man intimately wise.
I did not blame her too much because her husband is a womanizer and she knows that, although her husband never see us with that eyes. He always respect us and my family and his have a friendship of 20 years. And sincerely my sister is not that type of person either. We know him for so long way before he met his wife so if something in that intention had to happen, it would have occurred for a very long time but not now.
I have some many stories of women who trusted acquaintances and or friends only to see them end up having and affair with their significant others. There is even one case where the woman was a very good friend of my auntie she was all the time at her place having dinner, playing with her children. But guess what and she ended up having a son with my auntie’s husband. Everybody gets shocked when they knew about their affair, oh yes this is a great back stab to my auntie, who loves her, trust her and considered her as a good person.
Guys do not be suspicious every time a woman gets too close to your man, but at the same time do not either tolerate some weird, inappropriate behaviors; also keep in mind that some boundaries should not be trespassed.
