The time of great raves about how I look and my beauty is over. oh yes, the time of oh baby you are so beautiful, this skirt looks so good on you, red is your color, you shine with it seems to be in the past.
Women love being flaunted, it is something in our nature. We do love compliments from everybody starting with coworkers, relatives, friends, do not even ask when it comes to our partner, our significant other, even when a passerby says wow what a beautiful women we are happy and that puts a smile on our face, we start our day in an happy mood. Receiving compliments is good for our self-esteem, there is nothing more than a compliment to warm our heart get reassured and to make our day.
I remember that, as if it was yesterday, one of my friends at the university told the story of her big sister and her husband. There were three people in the car, my friend, who was driving the car, her sister and her brother in law. All of a sudden her sister a Jihanna burst into tears, which surprised her very much. Francklin, the husband, tried to console her while asking what was wrong with her. Her answer was even more astounding; in fact, she said: Francklin you haven’t told me that I was beautiful, it is that you did not see my new outfit, my leopard shoes and my makeup.
After stopping the car, Look at her brother in law and stated Francklin what about paying her a compliment, she looks amazing today, her clothes, and makeup are on point, and her shoes are amazing. Quickly, Francklin ad a little talk with his wife, said sorry that he did not compliment her on her new shoes, but as she already knows she is a beautiful women, and the way she got dressed and did sumptuous makeup enhance her natural beauty. even more By listening to her husband Jihanna stop crying and started to smile. Everything was alright;, then my friend could resume driving.
This might seem extreme for some of you, but for Jihanna , behaving that way was nothing but normal.
Plenty of women are like Jihanna, when putting extra care on their look, they not only do it for them but also for their significant other. As a results, they should feel flaunted; however when the husbands seem not paying to much attention, they get a bit disappointed and sad. Of course, those women are not going to cry, like Jihanna did, just in the hope of some signs of attention. No, they will not go that far.
But when compliments about our beauty and clothing are get fairly scarce or stop, that make us think about a few things.
We wonder if the eye-shadow is of a color that does not match our complexion, or was it too heavy. Do I look like a clown? And out of fondness and respect of us, he does not dare saying it, and keeps his mouth shut.
Or the scarcity of compliments while we both still living under the same roof, sleeping in the same bed every night, just means that he does not see you and he does not find you attractive anymore? Oh maybe the time he finds us dead gorgeous is already in the past.
We do not know what is going on, as we keep taking care of ourselves as much as before, we do not miss any of our dentists appointments, we take showers on a daily basis, and go to the beauty salon as much as we can.
Guys paying compliments to your wives do not cost a thing, then they should not be scarce, therefore be not sparing with praise for your significant other’beauty.
Complimenting your partner does not mean saying things that are not true, things that you don’t really believe yourself, As an example, if you do not like your wife’s skirt, do not say you like it, that is it cute, because she may get upset when she realises that.
In the same vein, if you do not like the shape of the skirt but you like its color, go ahead rave about it. In the same context, if you do not like your wife’s today hair but you do love the highlight just say it.
Also who of you who have kids, by paying compliments to your significant other, your kids are at the same time indirectly learning to do it as well; as they learn by copying. Later in life, they will find it normal to pay compliments to their girlfriends.
I remember listening to a show on the radio, the husband, who happened to be my next door neighbor, said every time his wife takes extra-cares of herself he says to the kids to tell their mom that she is beautiful today, what a pretty dress she has on.
I am not telling to compliment your wife about, her new accessories such as new garments, purses, belt, shoes, and to rave about her beauty on a daily basis, but when she puts a lot of care into a new hairdo, and when her new lingerie is really gorgeous, it is good to tell her that. in addition, like I previously mention it she also does it for you, to please you, so the fact that you compliment it proves that you see her efforts to please you.
Guys keep paying compliments to your wife, who knows it can make her day!
